Loneliness is a very powerful emotion. And, whether you have just ended a 6 month or a 6 year relationship the sudden realization of being alone can be shocking. Even in a dysfunctional relatinship there was someone around sometime. Since Loneliness is an emotion it needs to be treated as an emotion.
If loneliness is a powerful emotion for you at this time as a Christian you should be well prepared to deal with this emotion. Young or old you can find the structure you need to rebuild your life in the company of other Christian.
Being alone right now might be just where God wants you to be.
Some people get into a relationship for the sake of not being alone. This can be a mistake. Getting into a relationship with someone just for the sake of not being alone is not very smart. Here are some ways on how to deal with this fear of loneliness.
Getting into a relationship with someone for the sake of not being by yourself can cause problems down the road. What happens if you pick the wrong person? Let’s say you choose someone and you get married. After five or six months, you start to realize that you made a mistake in selecting this person. What do you do now?
Its not fun being alone but being with someone that you can barely tolerate is not the answer. Once you get married and have kids, it can be very difficult to get out of the relationship if things turn south. Make the smart decisions now and don’t let loneliness become a issue in your relationships.
Spending some time with animals can get rid of loneliness. Get a pet or volunteer at your local animal shelter. Walking or petting the animals can be very effective in managing loneliness. Animals are a great source for companionship.
Get a hobby. Find something you like to do and get involved. If you like to play volleyball, then find a local team. If you like to lift weights, then go to a gym. Doing something you like will keep you active and help you to make friends.
Develop a network of friends. A person who has friends will not be as alone as for someone who is constantly by themselves. Again, join a group where you can develop long lasting friendships.
Finally, if being alone bothers you that much then its best to see a professional. He or she can give you insights on how to better manage your fear of being alone. There is nothing wrong with being alone. In fact the average person spends some time alone during their lifetime.
Just remember you are not unique. Others have survived and grew through a suddenly single experience. I read some articles once by a lady who published a book on healing a broken heart why not go ahead and go to her web page and see if she can help....Click Here!
As we journey,
Larry
Suddenly Single Tips
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